Do mistakes help to find the right person?
Finding a date is just as hard as being on a date. If you meet someone for a date, you can tell when there is chemistry between one another but that's only in your defense. You don't know what's going on inside your date's mind. Now that's a little tricky. Sometimes when you think the date goes well then again you could be wrong and your date might wish he never left the house in the first place. Harsh but that's just how our society works now though not as harsh as knowing someone you thought that it might actually work out on the first date and being dumped the very next day as if that wasn't bad enough, the person didn't even have the guts to tell that he wasn't interested also it kept you thinking what you did wrong. Frankly speaking rejection is never a good thing, same thing as breakups. It's better to assert yourself and tell the person you are moving on without them and why rather than leave a lasting impression of cowardness on your part in a person's mind by avoiding them. So when you decline someone, make sure to have the decency to confront the person. Don't make things complicated as it already is. Be a man and never leave anyone hanging or waste their time on you. If you don't love that person, someone else will. Going through hell and back many times before as much as I may think I know enough, I won't..it keeps surprising me.
Signing out,
zaidi.
