Tuesday, January 12, 2016

The quieter you become, the more you can hear.

Dear blog,

Stay silent or to speak?

Silent treatment is not an immature thing to do, whoever say that has obviously never survived in the game before. Giving someone the cold shoulder is toxic yet effective (speaking from experiences), it gives the other person the time to realize and reflect on his/her own mistakes. Once he/she is done with self realization and reflection, they'll come around. But just like in every game there's a risk that you are willing to take. You have to resist the temptation to communicate and if by doing so, it can only up the tension and heat among each other. Worst come to worst, you may even end up losing everything. So the last thing you want is to give your love ones those cold shoudlers or receive it back. Although it's not all bad, sometimes, very rarely, a cold shoulder can be easily melted by a warm smile.

Signing out,
zaidi.